When a loved one dies in hospice, the moments that follow can feel confusing. You want to honor your person, take the right steps, and protect your family’s well-being. With hospice care, support does not end at the time of death; your team can guide you through immediate decisions and connect you with bereavement resources. This guide offers a calm, practical path for the first hours and days, along with gentle ideas for communication, memorial planning, and ongoing support.
What To Expect Right After A Hospice Death

If the death occurs at home, call your hospice number first. A nurse will guide you, visit if needed, confirm death, and help with next steps. If the death occurs in a facility, staff will contact hospice and follow the plan that you and your care team created. You can take time for quiet moments, prayer, music, or simple silence before any transitions begin.
Helpful tip: Keep the hospice number saved in your phone and posted on the refrigerator. You do not need to rush. Your pace matters.
First 72 Hours: A Simple Family Checklist
Use this checklist as a calm guide. Adjust based on your preferences and cultural or faith traditions.
Immediate Actions
- Call hospice. Ask the nurse to walk you through each step.
- Notify one trusted family member who can help with calls or texts.
- If you have a preferred funeral home or cremation provider, let hospice know so coordination can begin.
- Gather any personal wishes that were written or shared. Examples include clothing preferences, favorite readings, or music.
Practical Documents
- Have basic information ready for the funeral home, such as full name, date of birth, and Social Security Number.
- Set aside identification, insurance cards, military discharge papers if applicable, and any prearrangement documents.
- Ask hospice how to receive certified copies of the death certificate and how many to request.
Care Of The Home Or Room
- Collect valuables, medications, and keepsakes. Ask hospice about medication disposal.
- Decide who will care for pets and plants.
- Note items you wish to share with friends or community groups.
Communication
- Tell a small circle first. Ask them to pause wider announcements until you are ready.
- Use a simple message for texts or social media when the time comes. Example: “Our loved one died peacefully today with hospice support. We are grateful for your kindness. We will share service details soon.”
Planning A Meaningful Goodbye
A goodbye can be simple or traditional. Choose what aligns with your values and budget.
Options To Consider
- Private family time with music, readings, or favorite objects
- A home gathering with photos, stories, and candlelight
- A religious service with clergy or lay leaders
- A graveside or scattering service
- Delayed memorial with a video tribute for distant family
Personal Touches
- Invite two or three people to share short memories.
- Create a memory table with labeled photos.
- Offer a small take-home card with a poem or blessing.
- Include a moment of silence for those joining by video.
Supporting Children And Teens With Care
Children do best with clear, simple information and a chance to ask questions. Use real words like died and death. Offer choices about attending services. Encourage drawing, writing, or recording a short message that can be part of the memorial. Teens may want quiet time, a role in planning, or a peer to check in. Let school counselors know, and ask hospice about age-appropriate resources.
Caring For Yourself While You Care For Others
Grief creates real fatigue. Your body and mind need steady care.
- Eat small, regular meals and hydrate.
- Try a five-minute walk or stretch, twice a day.
- Accept help with meals, rides, or childcare.
- Practice a one-minute breath reset. Inhale for a count of 3, exhale for 4, repeat five times.
- Set a daily check-in with one trusted person, by text or voice, at a set time.
If sleep is very difficult or anxiety feels high, tell your hospice team and your primary care clinician. Support can be adjusted.
How Hospice Supports You After The Death
Hospice support does not end at the time of death. Many programs follow families for a year or longer with calls, mailings, groups, and resource referrals. Ask for options that fit your style, such as one-to-one check-ins, faith-integrated support, or completely secular conversations. You are welcome to use support even if you feel strong today and need help later.
Budget-Friendly Memorial Ideas
Meaning and connection do not require large expenses.
- Invite guests to bring a photo or a short written memory for a keepsake box.
- Use a shared playlist of favorite songs.
- Print programs at home with a simple template.
- Plant a tree or donate to a chosen cause instead of flowers.
- Create a rotating care calendar for the next month using a free shared tool.
When To Reach Out For Extra Help
Please contact your care team or a crisis resource right away if you notice any of the following in yourself or someone you love:
- Thoughts of self-harm
- Use of substances to numb intense pain
- Inability to complete basic daily tasks for several days
- Sudden withdrawal from all contact
- Panic that does not lessen with breathwork or support
Reaching out is a strong and caring step. Help is available.
How Homage Hospice Helps Families In Dallas-Fort Worth
Homage Hospice serves families across Dallas County, Collin County, Denton County, Parker County, and Tarrant County. Your team includes nurses, social workers, chaplains, volunteers, and providers who coordinate care with your funeral home or place of worship if you choose. You can request secular or faith-centered support. You can also ask for veteran-sensitive care if military service is part of your family’s story.
What You Can Expect
- A clear point of contact for calls and questions
- Guidance for paperwork and certified copies of the death certificate
- Check-ins that match your preferred pace
- Options for groups, one-to-one conversations, or quiet resources you can use at home
Printable Checklist: After A Loss In Hospice
Use this as a quick reference. Place it on the refrigerator or share it by text.
- Call hospice.
- Notify a trusted family contact.
- Share funeral home preferences.
- Gather documents and keepsakes.
- Care for pets and essential home needs.
- Draft a short message for a wider circle.
- Choose a simple memorial plan and date.
- Schedule a follow-up with hospice for support options.
Kind Support In Dallas
If you are seeking hospice care in Dallas County or nearby North Texas communities, connect with our team today. Call (469) 625-0705 or send us a message for compassionate end of life care and family-centered bereavement support.



